I have been giving Ben a few small things for his home, such as kitchenware that he will need and although he will need much more, at least he has a few plates and pot holders, as well as a couple of small pots. Once we begin getting the building materials, such as windows, I may have curtains that he may like that will fit his windows.
The process is slow, and although I am being careful to toss as much as possible; to remove attachment from most "things," I know that this is going to take a bit longer than I had anticipated. The up-side is that we are still making decisions on home type and layout and where we wish to be located. As of right now, I have been looking for property in a certain area and hope that soon, something we can afford will come available; hopefully without an existing dwelling on it.